Read an article ages ago. " when ur ex starts dating someone else, it can feel like breaking up with him all over again!" yeah..admitt it...it's so so true....
juz got a news abt my ex which said tht he's after smone! he made phone calls everynite with this gal..he bcome extremely quiet when he's with this gal...Juz when i thought i had erased him from my hard drive, heard tht he's dating sm1 else!! Arrgghh....within a milliseconds, the pain is so great it feels like i was being dumped all over again =( sigh..yeah..i know...we r GAME OVER!!!!n it's a HISTORY now!!!but...smhow....juz feel sort of.....arrgghh..i dunno how to describe..it's smhow a mix feeling.....i'm not tht STEADY!!!i admitt it..so..so what.....
This article is good...hehe..according to the writer : GIVING HIM UP FOREVER!!!!he's with some1 else- face it- there's not going to b any Hollywood ending to your ill-fated romance. Instead you need to move on- here's how:
1) Spotlight The Bad Stuff
write a list of all the reasons that u 2 juz weren't right for each other.
a) we r so....incompatible...he's juz too young.....
b) he stress on the importance of frens.....he rather hang out with his frens rather than
ME!!!!!
c) i'm alwiz the 2nd....after his frens....
d) he likes flirting around with other gals
2) Give Up the Blame
Obsessing over the betrayals and who was right n wrong, is not the way to mend a broken
heart. It juz keeps u in a holding pattern where u're too bitter to move on. So, write him a
letter tht expresses all ur feelings- u dun even hav to send it but u'll find tht once u've put it
all on paper u'll feel less bothered by it. Now u're ready to let go of the past n look ahead to
the future.
hmmm...really hav to write meh????i dun like writting letters 1 leh...haha......nvm...write
a letter using my brain izzit counted as write...haha..wateva...my wish..btw, nobody else
wil knoe whether i write this lettter wat...so.......haha....
3) Stop Interrogating Friends
u dun really wanna know how skinny she is, how often they talk on the phone, how much
they giggle like 2 school kids when they're together. Okay so u do wanna know- but having
all the information is not good for u n wil do nothing to help u let go of ur ex n move on. So,
stop asking n if ur friends try to tell u-say thanks but i duwanna knoe!!!
hehe...this was easy!!!!instead of frens..i'll juz ask my bro to ZIP
UP his mouth!!!!haha...dun let him talk abt "him"..I DUWANNA KNOE!!!!!!but heh...wat if
he alredi said smthing abt him...n i'm too late to tell him to SHUT UP????how leh...how
leh......
4) Don't Jump To Conclusions
Okay, so..he's seeing another girl and by all accounts they can't keep their hands off each
other. But tht doesn't mean he's in love- lotz of men hav trouble being on their own and
making commitment- so this new relationship he's in might go nowhere or might b more abt
sex than true compatibility. Juz bcoz he's happy with some1 else doesn't mean tht u were the
problem in this relationship. Remember- u wil find love again n next time u'll b more savvy
abt wht to look for in a partner. If ur ex couldn't see all ur wonderful qualities then he didn't deserve to b with u n u're much better off without him...
wah..i like the last sentence....hehe.....but hor..."dun jump to conclusion"....this author dun
get smthing here...if u wanna 4get "him"..then..plz la...straight away jump to the conclusion
tht..hmm..he wun b as "hang fok"..haha..as..he din choose u...see..this conclusion was easy..
he din choose u is his "sun zak"...u got nothing to loose...is him....wat ler...wah..i think i can
think of a better solution than the author...*shy.beh pai seh...i admitt a...muka tebal!!!!haha
at least i dare to admitt it!!!! =P
Ish ish ish....zouk zouk zouk...i'm crazy.....ceh..who cares....i wanna b myself....i wan a brand new me!!!!i swear!!!!this time...i really really will...i really mean it....delete him....out of my memory!!!!
Friday, December 08, 2006
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